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REDEFINING EDUCATIONAL SUCCESS

August 31st, 2010

The educational system is at a turning point.
Though it has taken a beating in the past few years – shrinking budgets, increased regulation and complexity, greater job demands, and a lower influx of new teachers (i.e. new energy) — it is actually the perfect time to redefine the meaning of educational success, and as a community band together in its pursuit.

Children are not just their grades and test scores, their parents and the support they get, their individual aptitudes or emotional development, the classrooms they’re in or the teachers they have… it’s actually all of those things, and more.

Educational success must be measured by how well we are developing 21st century students who are global thinkers with strong communication, relationship, and team-working skills; and how well we are readying our young people to be the leaders of the future, able to flourish and thrive.

Our role as a community of engaged educators is to produce innovators, entrepreneurs, and contributors to society.  By teaching our young people about decision making, about values, about emotions, and about the way they think, we are watering the seeds of greatness in each child.

Success can further be defined as our ability to provide excellent leadership to each student, utilizing coaching technology that brings out the full potential of each student. By providing robust tools that positively impact the whole child, across his or her life, and throughout his or her development, the Educational Leadership Coach Training program (www.CoachTrainingforEducators.com) allows professional educators to see more angles, understand the interconnectedness of diverse elements, and focus their efforts in a way that brings about positive, substantial, and sustainable change.

In the world in which we live today, our success as educators will depend on our ability to create a culture that is focused on “what’s right,” one in which parents and community, standing alongside our teachers, principals, and superintendents, see the greatness in every child, and are committed to that child’s intellectual,  physical, and emotional well-being.

What will that new culture look like? Inside the classroom we’ll adopt new approaches, more deeply embedding multiple learning modalities, customizing lesson plans to the individual student, and demonstrating leadership and improving interpersonal skills through coaching competencies like intuitive listening and acknowledgement and validation.

Outside the classroom, we will lead through social interactions, getting our students involved in more than just academics, and encouraging them to become involved in their communities and to pursue their passions.

Some of these approaches have been in the works and are in use today; other approaches are still in the making to figure out what’s going to best educate students based on today’s requirements.

In order to meet those requirements, we need to become even more aware of all the factors that are impacting our children – to recognize that when students don’t feel physically and emotionally safe, true learning doesn’t happen. When students are hungry, they must be fed.  When they are afraid and lack confidence, they must be reassured. Their basic needs have to be met so that their minds are free to learn.

We need to set up an environment that is risk free, and to nurture and support students every day, no matter how they show up to class in the moment. We need to empower students to come up with their own answers and to view situations from a holistic perspective. We need to learn to trust that they can lead themselves, and that they can learn how to make effective decisions that factor in many perspectives.

So who do educational leaders and other professional educators need to become to deliver on this new vision?
We need to become great leaders and great coaches.  As more and more effective educators develop their true ability to lead and use the power of coaching, more and more children will mirror those forms of positive communication that seek to bring forth the inner brilliance and worth of each person.

Written by Alan Cohen

It’s your Choice

August 30th, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

Victim or Leader? You Choose!

“You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests you think she’s pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her.”

I love this joke and included it as one of our weekly messages for a reason other than humor. Too many people take life too seriously and things too personally. Sometimes, due to our worrying about upsetting another person, we hold back from connecting with them.

Instead of that, being open and honest will lead to a greater connection. Just keep one thing in mind: if your intentions are pure, then a simple apology will clean up anything that may have been received as inappropriate.

This week, instead of worrying about what people think, with love, let them know a little about what you think.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

Challenge, instead of Holding Back

August 23rd, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

“When trouble arises and things look bad, there is always one individual who perceives a solution and is willing to take command. But sometimes that individual is crazy!”

Just a lighthearted quote to remind us all that one of two things occurs when someone takes the lead in a crisis. Either the leader is on target and the challenge is on its way to being ameliorated, or the leader is off track and leads others into further chaos.

How can you know which is the case? Instead of blindly responding to someone, even if they are in charge, ask them how they came to the conclusion they did. Oftentimes, you will hear something that doesn’t make sense, and your “two cents” may just help.

This week, if you’re facing a challenging situation and someone offers a solution, ask for clarification before responding.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

Is Your Life a Gain or a Drain?

August 16th, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

As most of you know, we are all energy. Energy is either anabolic (this builds you up) or catabolic (this breaks you down). It’s important to note that everything in our lives, including tasks, goals, relationships, jobs, etc., are either anabolic or catabolic as well.

Consider all the things in your life that help you, or hinder you, from being the best you can be with the most energy. To get the most energy out of life, you’ll need to decide what energy (people, places, and things) you want to keep, and what you want to let go.

This week, make gain/drain inventory for the people, places, and things in your life and think about making some adjustments.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

Where Your Past Meets Your Future: Finding a Unique Niche within the Life Coaching Industry

August 11th, 2010

By Guest Blogger Ryan Stanley, CPC

When I first decided to become a Life Coach, a lot of people I knew expressed concern about how I would be able to relate to all of the challenges that may come from the diversity of working with different types of people.

“How are you going to be an expert in everything?”

“Why would someone who is 20 years older than you want to go to you for advice?”

Now, after going through iPEC’s coach training program, I’m aware that I don’t need to be an expert in anything except the coaching process (specifically the Core Energy Coaching™ process) itself. I also now know that I’m not really giving any advice at all, as much as I am reflecting the clients’ concerns and challenges in a positive, personal format which enables them to gain new perspectives on what some solutions to those concerns and challenges may be.

But of course, when people decide that they want to be a life coach, they don’t know any of that yet. What they do know is that they enjoy seeing others become happy, healthy, and successful. So naturally, some of those same questions that my friends were asking me in regards to the challenges of becoming a Life Coach begin to pop up and block some potentially amazing coaches from taking their first steps to be a life coach.

Ironically, once someone goes through the program to become a Certified Professional Coach, a very common conversation that they end up having with clients is all about the client deciding what they really want out of life. What types of people do they want to surround themselves with? What kind of conversations do they want to be having at their work place on a daily basis?

It’s these type of questions which also often helps coaches begin to identify a niche or specific type of clientele. For whatever reason, it’s our nature as humans to think that any obvious answer is ‘too easy’ and it’s ‘got to be harder than that.’ The truth is, there are no rules about how to choose your clientele. You already have a wealth of personal experiences. And you know the type of people who you enjoy interacting with.

Consider: What do you love to talk about on a regular basis?

If it’s one thing that the development of internet and social networks has taught me, it’s that no matter what your hobby or personal interest may be, there are thousands, if not millions of people out there in the world with an equally focused interest in that exact subject. And if it’s one thing that becoming a life coach has taught me, it’s that every one of those people can benefit from having a life coach.

And when you’re working with a client, and you’re able to combine your common passion for that specific something with the coaching process, you end up having deep, engaged conversations about something that you both love.  And guess what? “Coincidentally” these conversations often end up having the client finding themselves on a clearer path to a happy, healthy and successful life.

Believe it or not, choosing a niche can be that easy. Your product is joy. Your target clients are people that you would love to talk to about a subject that is closely aligned with who you both are.

Oh, and by the way. Just because you choose a niche doesn’t mean that you can’t coach anyone else. If you’re good at what you do, chances are you’ll attract clients from all walks of life. It also doesn’t mean that you can’t change your niche. Be a coach. Enjoy the ride. You and your clients deserve it.

RMS

PS. Outside of my passion here at iPEC (which essentially is building successful relationships), I also coach within the music industry.  I had the pleasure of recently being interviewed for Play It Loud Music.  You can check out the interview here, Play It Loud Music’s Blog Thanks again!

Ryan is the Director of Strategic Alliances here at iPEC. He is also a band manager, screenwriter and Professional Life Coach. To find out more about Ryan’s journey to becoming a coach and his niche of choice, check out the blog/interview series above that he was recently asked to be a part of.  You can also find him on FaceBook at www.facebook.com/RMS.Life.Coach or check out his website at www.ryanstanley.com.