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Happiness Doesn’t Last — and it’s Not Supposed to!

February 21st, 2011

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

Life is a series of ups and downs, and yet many people in an “up” time don’t allow themselves to appreciate it for fear of it not lasting. The truth is, in the duality in which we live, we would not have any ups if it weren’t for downs.  Therefore, instead of worrying about the ups not lasting, know that they are there for your enjoyment, now.

This week, when something positive happens, enjoy it fully in the now, and know that it is a gift to be experienced that moment.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
www.ipeccoaching.com

Life is Good…

August 9th, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

Life Just Is

…and enfolding as it should.

Wouldn’t it be great if we could appreciate each experience we have without judgment? When things are painful, we label them as bad and want them to end. When things are enjoyable we label them as good and are disappointed when they end.

Life just is. There are no good or bad experiences; there are only experiences. Life is full of experiences and without judgment, all will offer you value.

This week, instead of judging your life, try to be an observer instead of just the participant.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

I am honored…

July 15th, 2010

I am honored to take on the position as CEO of the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC).  I’ve had the fortunate experience of working side-by-side with our founder, Bruce D Schneider, for more than 6 years now and have received more inspiration, benefits, and growth than can be listed here.  I’m looking forward to continuing to work with Bruce as he remains our Chairman of the Board and an integral part of our strategic development, and also with the rest of the extraordinary team here at iPEC.

On a more personal note, I’m very fortunate to be a ‘product’ of iPEC – I started as a student, graduated and worked as a coach, and have been part of the team for the past 6 years.  As an organization, we live and breathe our principles and our coaching methodology – it’s who we are and what we do, and it ripples throughout the organization.  You’ll see it in our support team, our trainers, our admissions coaches, our leadership, and ultimately our graduates.

Being around a highly engaged and energetic team and the iPEC alumni community provides me the chance to continually develop while being inspired.  This is what ‘work’ and life is supposed to be like.

I’m excited to assume this post and work with our Institute to provide a clear voice for the coaching marketplace as we support our graduate coaches and leaders in making a substantial difference in the lives, careers, and businesses of their clients and employees.  Thank you for the difference you are making.

Live on fire!

D. Luke Iorio
President and CEO

Let’s Get Real

April 8th, 2010

By D. Luke Iorio

So, admittedly, I’m not a fan of reality shows.  However, I have to give kudos where they are more than well deserved.  “American Idol,” “The Biggest Loser,” and “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” have used their popularity to give back.  Their efforts deserve a round of applause and represent what our media and entertainment industry can be doing more of.

“American Idol” has brought attention to a variety of charitable causes involving Africa, raising millions of millions of dollars over the past several years. They have literally turned their “voting public” into donors.

“The Biggest Loser” has started the “Pound for Pound” effort to drive donations into the “Feeding America” program – the nation’s largest charitable hunger-relief organization.

“Extreme Makeover: Home Edition” has brought ABC’s “A Better Community” movement to the forefront.  This movement encourages getting involved and being a volunteer, putting who you are and what you do into action for the development of our communities.  “A Better Community” regularly spotlights local and national non-profits that are aligned with its philosophy of giving back.

For those countless other programs on TV… how will you encourage and bring about positive change?  How will you encourage your audiences to bring out the best in themselves and those around them?

For the viewing public… How will you use your influence?  How will you make the difference you want to make?

Start simple.  Whether it’s smiling at strangers, holding open a door, making it a point to say thank you and show your appreciation, or getting involved directly in non-profit and community development work, the point is to consciously choose to use your influence.  Don’t sit on the sidelines, get involved however you can.

Love is in the Air!

February 16th, 2010

Strangers in the night and love is in the air! It’s that time of the year for couples to show unconditional love and whisper sweet nothings followed up with beautiful smelling red roses and cherry filled chocolates.  So what should one do for this day of love? Here’s a suggestion; if you’re happily involved in a healthy, loving relationship make it point to make Valentine’s Day extra special. Be sure to be creative and think out of the box. Of course you can always have a romantic dinner and send flowers, and this is great but let’s really show some love and let her see your romantic side.  Here’s a tip for you; make romantic plans for the two of you to share cozy an d memorable moment that will last you a lifetime. Instead of watching the sunset, pack a picnic basket with some hot cocoa, marsh-mellows and a warm blanket and watch the Sun rise!

That’s right; I said “watch the sun rise!”Just before sunrise is one of the most beautiful times of day, it’s peaceful and you can watch nature as she un-veils life right before your eyes. Think about it, a romantic date in the morning…sounds exciting doesn’t it? I can assure you that your date will certainly be surprised by it.

Often, simplicity is absolutely the best policy. Your location can be anywhere you’d like. Even in your own backyard. All that matters is the two of you  sharing a romantic moment as you  watch the night fade, and the sun awaken the world around you… now that’s romantic!

Happy Valentine’s Day!
Shelby M. Hill, MBA, CPC
www.ShelbyMHill.com
www.ItsComplicatedOnline.com