Coaching Excellence blog

Knowing without Learning

December 17th, 2012

Study your relationship with wisdom. 

When you practice being wise, you break through limiting beliefs, assumptions, and interpretations. You see, when you accept the way things seem to be, you’re not looking at all the possibilities. Wisdom is not limited to “facts.” Wisdom means trusting the TRUTH within yourself more than you trust what most people believe is TRUE.

The truth is that we are, inherently, all geniuses. Once you can let go of the blocks that hold you back, you release the wisdom and the master within you and live closer to your potential. Wisdom is not a measurement of what you’ve learned. Wisdom is your inner capacity to know without learning. True wisdom allows you to go beyond what you believe is possible, and truly make a difference in the world.

Take a moment to consider how you have been measuring your level of wisdom. What definition has created your reality? What definition would you like to use from now on?

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC, PhD
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

(Today’s blog is excerpted from iPEC’s self-mastery personal development program, The Law of Being.)

I Dare You!

December 14th, 2012

I think we’re all familiar with the game, “Truth or Dare.” As an adolescent, you may have had to admit to what you thought was an embarrassing truth about yourself or, even worse, kiss someone. Yuck!  How did we not catch the cooties from this?

Today, however, I’m not giving you the Truth choice. I’m just going to Dare you. Ready?

I dare you to:

Laugh – Too often we take things way too seriously. Laughter, as the saying goes, is the best medicine. Take a dose of that medicine today and have a good, hearty laugh. It’s a great antidote for stress, crankiness, low energy, and it offers a host of physical and mental benefits.

Double Dare – Make someone else laugh too!

Compliment Yourself – As we strive, every day, to be better than the day before, we frequently lose track of how great we already are! Take five minutes and tell yourself why you are so intrinsically awesome!

Double Dare – Compliment five other people.

Help Someone – One of the best ways to feel good about yourself is to do something for another person. Today, take the opportunity to lend a hand to someone in need.

Double Dare – Help a stranger.

Learn Something – If we aren’t learning, we aren’t growing. A vital part of continually developing ourselves is to be constantly discovering new things about the world we live in. Take a few minutes and expand your knowledge.

Double Dare – Teach somebody something new.

Exercise – Just as keeping our minds sharp is important, keeping our bodies well-tuned is too.  A brisk walk or ten pushups are not only physically good for you, but they clear the mind and relieve stress, as well.

Double Dare –Start a daily exercise regimen today.

Set a Goal – It can be a personal goal or a professional goal.  Either way, write it down and determine how you are going to obtain it.

Double Dare – Let others know what your goal is.

Add to this List – Post a comment daring you, me, and others to challenge ourselves by submitting your own dare.

And, though I may be breaching daring etiquette, I will triple-dog-dare each of us to do these things every day!

Live on Fire!

D. Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President & CEO
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

Be the Difference

October 8th, 2012

You have the ability to do something extraordinarily powerful, and, without effort. It’s the unique way you can share your gifts to make a difference in the world. It’s the way you influence others by letting yourself shine.

When you allow your gifts to shine, you resonate at your highest potential. When you consciously express your potential in whatever you do, you will live abundance in all things, including ultimate happiness, health, wisdom, and wealth.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC, PhD
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

(Today’s blog is excerpted from iPEC’s self-mastery personal development program, The Law of Being.)

Detached Involvement

September 17th, 2012

When you practice detached involvement, you’re both a participant and an observer of your life at the same time. You see all experiences as part of life’s journey without judging them as being good or bad. You simply experience them and are in control of your responses to them. You’re fully involved, but detached from the allure of outcomes.

So, how do you learn to practice detached involvement?
- Take nothing personally
- Make no assumptions
- Make as few judgments as possible
- Let go of the need to be right
- Let go of the need to control
- Be passionate about all of life’s experiences, even the painful ones
- Give all you have, your true gifts, to whatever you’re doing
- Detach from future potential results

By living fully involved and yet detached, you can more quickly focus in the moment and will more quickly manifest true power using your potential.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC, PhD
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

(Today’s blog is excerpted from iPEC’s self-mastery personal development program, The Law of Being.)

Challenge the Status Quo

June 18th, 2012

When you challenge the status quo, you get out of your own box by seeing your life as potential not yet experienced, instead of seeing your life as being filled with limitations.

When you ask, “why is this the way it is?” – not to be right, but to curiously question anything that seems to be a restriction or limitation, you open yourself up to new possibilities.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC, PhD
Founder,
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

(Today’s blog is excerpted from iPEC’s self-mastery personal development program, The Law of Being.)