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Attention Employers: Your Employees Want, No NEED, A Coach Approach!

February 19th, 2010

It’s one of the toughest times ever — both for those out of work and perhaps, even more, for those who have held on to their jobs.   The plain fact is that employees need to cover more work with less available resources in order for their companies to survive, let alone thrive. Employers, on the other hand, require employees who understand just how much is at stake and who are just as invested as the top executives are in making things work.

Employers have been able to hold onto top talent because of the poor economy, but that may no longer be enough to retain those high performers, especially when the economic climate improves.  The number of Americans who reported being happy with their careers dropped to an all-time low — 45 percent — in a new Conference Board survey that found people are more miserable than ever in nearly every aspect of their work lives.

What can you, as an employer, do to increase motivation and engagement and help those employees you value through challenging times?  How can you, as a leader, set the tone and motivate and inspire your team, leading to a happier and more productive workplace? (Remember, when things get better, you don’t want to lose your best workers – retraining and rehiring is an expensive proposition!)

Employees are looking for true leaders…who can talk AND walk like true coaches!  “Nothing is better than a leader who understands the value of the coaching process, who learns from his or her own coach, and then takes those skills into the workplace to develop and lead a team,” comments Ed Abel, President of Abel Institute, an international leader in business coaching, whose company develops business owners into powerful business leaders.

Here are just a few great skills that all leaders can develop, courtesy of iPEC Coaching:
•    Share the vision and empower employees to contribute their ideas and give feedback.  Ask more questions than you answer, and seek to get “buy in” to the plan.  Ask questions like, “what does the plan need in order to make it work for you?”
•    Don’t make promises you can’t keep – employees appreciate honesty! Level with your team and show that you are committed to helping them.
•    Listen to your employees’ concerns, and acknowledge and validate their fears.  Focus not only on “what” they say, but on the context of the message (where are they truly coming from? why are saying what they are saying? what does their tone tell you? other non-verbal cues?).
•    Celebrate successes and give recognition. Adam Gostick and Chester Elton, in “The Carrot Principle: How Great Managers Use Employee Recognition,” write “For organizations that do it right, it’s a bit like discovering gold in your backyard. Employee recognition, long considered a benefit that costs money, can actually be a management tool that makes money.”
•    Find out what internal drivers motivate your employees (it’s not a one size fits all approach) — is it more exposure, creative outlets, time off, etc? What else will speak to their individual needs? Then create opportunities that play to these drivers.
•    Lead by example, and with integrity: D. Luke Iorio, President of iPEC Coaching comments, “It’s often been said that true leaders emerge when times are tough – it’s what you do in the difficult times that makes you a leader; and this is when your integrity will be tested the most… When your actions match your message and your decisions match your principles, others view you as genuine, authentic and trustworthy. They will follow your lead.”

Too Young to Retire: Baby Boomers Start Coaching Businesses

October 9th, 2009

The traditional business model and large corporations no longer provide the satisfaction and job security as they used to only a decade ago.

Interestingly enough despite these challenging economic times, America appears to be on the cusp of an entrepreneurial boom… and baby boomers are leading the way, according to a study conducted by the Ewing Marion Kauffman Foundation. Over the past decade Americans age 55-64 have seen the highest rate of entrepreneurial activity — and growth in entrepreneurship among nearly all age groups has seen increases over the past 24 months as motivated individuals are taking their careers into their own hands.

With their vast business and life experience and the desire to help others succeed and have more fulfilling lives and careers, they are simply too young to retire. The profession of coaching is calling to them because it is one of the few professions that fully capitalizes on their experience, values, and “pay it forward” attitude. Baby boomers have acquired their interest in coaching as others have sought their help and advice looking to learn from their life and career experiences.

Answer these questions, for yourself, and see if they steer you towards a natural calling:

  • What do you value — personal growth? Working in partnership? Helping others?
  • What experiences and strengths do you have that might be of assistance to others?
  • What do you feel when you see great potential in others – and help them see it too? What drive do you have to help them exercise that potential?

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Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President
iPEC’s Coach Training Program
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching

The Big Questions – Part One: Changing Old Beliefs

September 19th, 2008

On September 9th, I was interviewed by Luke Iorio, Vice President of iPEC, and Evie DiPiazza, iPEC’s Director of Corporate Relations and Community Services. This was an “Ask Bruce” call; those who signed up for it were invited to submit their questions about how to get more out of life, about the things that keep them up at night, about master level coaching, and about anything else they had on their minds. If you missed it, you can Click here to listen.

Many great questions came in, and I wasn’t able to answer all of them in the hour-long call, so I’ll be posting those questions I didn’t get to on this blog over the next few weeks.  Here’s one of them:

Q:  “I’ve been taught and conditioned to believe certain things about who I am that I have recently realized are limiting me and holding me back. How can I begin to change these beliefs and perceptions so that I can reach more of my potential?”

A:  Wipe your slate clean today, and begin to journal “who I am.” For each experience, write how it positively or negatively affects who you would like to be, and like a puzzle, keep what you like and toss the rest.

If you do this journaling exercise and would like to share your experiences, if you have other questions, or if you want to respond to something I’ve said, comment here and I’ll get back to you.

Great Reception

September 12th, 2008

I think most people would agree that it's much easier to give than receive. We've even been taught that it's "better" to do so. Giving is a powerful experience.

However, please consider the power in receiving. When you allow someone to give to you, you are honestly giving them something even more valuable in return; validation of their sentiment. When you actively receive with grace and openness, you permit the other person to experience the joy and power of sharing with you.

This week, actively receive, even if it's just with a thank you and smile after a compliment. Free yourself and the person giving to fully enjoy the experience.

Play it Big

August 26th, 2008

The famous writer, Milan Kundera said, "There are no small parts – only small actors." 

They call the greatest actors masters of their craft, and yet there are masters in all aspects of life. Perhaps you’ve noticed them, perhaps not; but if you look around you will find people who so excel in what they do that they far exceed what’s expected, and indeed, sometimes what’s even thought to be possible.

Each of us has an important part to play in this world. We are each endowed with our own gifts, which, when shared, make this world a better one. We are each masters in the making. The key to unlocking your inner master is to pour all your passion into whatever it is you do without worrying about how others will react. Your job is not to please others, it is to share your gift.

This week, intend to share your mastery, your true gift, and be an inspiration to the world. Give yourself permission to play it big.