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iPEC SHIFTs New Jersey Into a Higher Level of Consciousness

March 15th, 2010

That’s what happens when 400 like-minded change agents, coaches and community leaders gather in a hotel in Morristown, New Jersey! On Thursday, March 4th, iPEC Coaching hosted S.H.I.F.T. New Jersey, an event which is part of a national consciousness-raising movement, as well as a celebration of  iPEC’s 10th anniversary.

The keynote speaker was Bruce D Schneider, Master Certified Coach, founder of iPEC, who personally shared the transformational power behind “The Slingshot Effect,” a unique phenomenon that occurs when a significant amount of pressure builds up within and around us. By simply learning how to release this pressure, one can be at the cause of his or her life - and create a ripple effect of extraordinary results. Dr. Schneider invited all those in attendance to take the challenge of making a difference in at least one person’s life over the next 30 days. The crowd was more than excited to participate.

Other presenters included iPEC’s CEO, D. Luke Iorio, and other iPEC executives, Deborah Van De Grift, Cheryl Wilson, and affiliate partner, Ed Abel from Abel Business Institute, Network Plus, Powerful You!, and Affinity. Events have occurred in Chicago, Los Angeles, and New Jersey, with additional cities being planned.

Listen to what some of the attendees had to say about this extraordinary evening:

“It only goes to show you the transformation power of iPEC and Bruce Schneider when they sell out a room to 400 people. The S.H.I.F.T. NJ event was an evening of inspiration, energy, motivation and it left a lasting impact! Bruce’s presentation was mindful and full of enlightening purpose. Definitely, do not miss the next S.H.I.F.T. event!!”
Ed Able, Abel Business Institute

“Thank you, iPEC, for the incredible evening at SHIFT NJ!  You provided inspiration, motivation, and meaningful insights to propel forward anyone interested in improving their own life or making a difference in the lives of others.  I am grateful to have experienced the power of iPEC and look forward spreading the word so others may benefit as well.  I can now understand why Bruce D Schneider is such a well-loved leader.”
Sue Urda, Co-Founder of Powerful You! Women’s Network  www.powerfulyou.com

“SHIFT is a movement emerging from these challenging, yet exciting times. We were thrilled with the reception of the New Jersey event, which, like all SHIFT events, was intended for professionals, leaders, and change agents who want to see positive change happen and seek support and ideas for new ways to progress. The room was filled with like-minded people who wish to seize and create opportunities, and make a significant difference in the world.”
D. Luke Iorio, CEO, iPEC Coaching

“I came to SHIFT because I always get inspired when I listen to Bruce speak. (and I did). It lifts my energy level and always gives me new and interesting things to expand my mind and therefore my business.  The bonus factor of being at SHIFT that I did not think ahead about was reconnecting to so many people in the iPEC family.  It is unbelievable uplifting to be in a room filled with people whose values, consciousness, and love of living and learning bond us together.”
Ivy Slater from Slater Success Coaching

“SHIFT New Jersey was an absolutely inspirational evening. The energy, the people, and the practical, down-to-earth information were all remarkable. And if that wasn’t enough, I found “The Slingshot Effect” was not only a fantastic transformational tool but a revolutionary “shift” in perspective that turns tension into triumph. Great stuff from start to finish!!”
Brett Ramsdell, Coaching Student

“SHIFT offers a powerful and concise reminder of the absolute necessity of being fully engaged as the leader of your own life, and making the conscious choice to affect others positively. Watch your world expand as you shift!”
Kimber Britner from Bright Life Coaching

The Power of Real Connections by Guest-blogger Sue Urda

March 3rd, 2010

In our society today, “connections” is a huge buzz word.  If you are connected, you are someone who has access to and influence with the “right” people.  The “right” people will vary depending on certain situations that arise.  It is the connections you have and the amount of influence you have with them, along with your belief in yourself that will provide strength, security, and the means for creating abundance in all areas of your life.

Real and meaningful connections are those which you can call on at a moment’s notice.  These vital connections provide non-judgmental support, assistance, creativity and knowledge.  Being connected whether in business or personally, provides a sense of ease in your life.

It may be said that connections equal power.  It may also be said that connections equal life.

As we know from Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human Needs, one of the six basic needs is the need for socialization – love, friendship and comradeship.  This is a need for love and belonging.  This is a need for basic human contact.  In fact, this is a need for connection.

The real beauty and value of connections is the way they make you feel.  Connections provide security, freedom, opportunity, friendship and grace.  Real connections make you feel capable, unstoppable and more expansive than you might otherwise feel as an individual.

Here are 7 tips for making and nurturing real connections in life:

1.  Be yourself. Be real.  Pretense in any situation can be dangerous.  When you meet someone, simply be yourself.  You may choose to put your best foot forward and be “your best self” and that is perfect.  People who resonate with your personality and energy will be drawn to you.  You will find that being yourself at all times, makes for a life filled with ease, grace, and less stress.

2.  Be likeable. You know there is a part of you that is truly likeable, engaging and attractive.  There is a part of you that people are drawn to and want to be around.  If you take stock of how you are “being”, you will know whether you are being charming or uninviting.  Always “check your attitude” at the door and choose to be the likeable you!

3.  Express gratitude freely. It is said that you learn much about an individual’s character by how she speaks of others.  Know that words have power.  Any thanks or praise, that you can give about another person gives power to everyone in the transaction. Power is heightened for the individual you share it with, the individual you share it about, and also for you.  It is always appropriate to express gratitude.

4.  Be present. No matter where you are or what you are doing, give yourself freely to the people that surround you, the task at hand, and the individuals who will be affected by your actions, words, and presence. Put aside the chatter of your mind, clear your plate, and simply be present. Being present is a gift for you and everyone else touched in the moment.

5.  Make new connections at every opportunity. Even if you think you don’t have time for another person in your life, think again. There is always room for someone with good energy, an open spirit, and the “right” connections.  When you choose to expand the circles of your life, you are choosing to expand yourself.  Expansion is exciting, empowering, exhilarating, and fun. You never know where a connection will lead, because you never know who or what anyone knows until you open up to them.  The next person you meet may be holding the answer to your questions.  She may be the perfect connection for you.  Get connected.

6.  Reach out and touch someone. The human touch contains more energy than any word, thought or material item.  Touching someone makes an instant connection.  They will pay closer attention to you, they will feel more a part of the conversation, and they will feel that you care about them.  A touch can be a small gesture like a handshake or a hand placed on their arm or shoulder.  A touch can also be a bigger gesture like a hug, a kiss or holding hands.  No matter the length or intensity, a touch commits your energy to the other person and creates an immediate physical bond.  This will create, enhance and strengthen your intellectual and emotional bond and supply meaning to the conversation, the topic and your relationship.  Perhaps above all, touching feels good.

7.  Use wisely your power of choice. We all have the same 86,400 seconds in each day.  How do you use yours?  Are you honoring yourself and your time?  If you do not have a big, huge “why” for how you are spending your time and who you are sharing it with, and if you are not enjoying yourself, do something else.  Seriously, find other people to hang around with, do business with and live with.  Move if you have to. Physically move from your space, whether this means taking two steps back or moving to another community.  The connections of your life matter.  Find something and someone you completely love.  Find something and someone who makes your heart sing.  Find something and someone who inspires you.  When you do, you will know the beauty and joy of real connections.  Today is not a dress rehearsal.  It’s your life.

Remember this:  YOU decide who your connections are.  YOU get to choose.  Choose to create and nurture connections that serve you.  Choose connections that make you feel good.  And always, always, choose to enjoy the process.  Now, that’s Powerful!
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About Sue Urda:
Sue Urda is Co-Founder of Powerful You! Women’s Network, an Award-Winning Author, Speaker and Inspirer.  She is a two-time honoree on Inc. Magazine’s list of the 500 Fastest-Growing Private Companies and has learned the secret of living from her heart.  Through Powerful You! Inc, Sue designs venues for women to connect with each other and themselves.  You are invited to join Sue’s network, regional and national events: Women Living Consciously Conference, Transformation 2010 National Tour and Powerful You! Women’s Network.  Visit Sue’s website at:  www.powerfulyou.com