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February 20th, 2012
My vision of the future is one where people know how to live, love and enjoy their journeys, as they occur. In this vision, people are conscious and see all experiences as part of the journey. They don’t judge experiences as good or bad, they experience them, in control, instead of having the experiences control them. I envision a more conscious world, filled with power instead of fear, in which people harness the energy that is in and around them to manifest miracles, daily. I see a world where people live each moment to the fullest, and do not wait for something to occur in order to allow themselves joy.
What’s YOUR vision?
—Bruce D Schneider, MCC, PhD
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
**Today’s blog is an excerpt from iPEC Coaching’s self-mastery personal development program, The Law of Being
Tags: change, expectations, intentions, opportunity, success
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February 15th, 2012
Is a Master of Life a person whom we see out in the public eye? Are award winning actors or star athletes masters of life? What about authors, musicians, scientists, or politicians? They could be, but we also encounter them in our daily lives, as well. That is, people who breathe life into their work, people who love what they do, and people who inspire, are all certainly masters of life. It could be the waitress at the diner who serves her customers like she is serving her own family, or the gas station attendant who cleans your windshield. They are those who didn’t have to do what they were doing; but, chose to do so, anyway.
So, think of a master as someone who emits energy of success. It’s a mindset that automatically attracts the right people, places, events, and opportunities to them. It’s the same mindset that allows them to jump all over those opportunities with gusto, without fear and without hesitation. There are masters everywhere. It’s not aspiring to a level that society would say is the level of mastery – or a level of success. It’s finding your own calling, or, moreover, making that call, having people answer, and inspiring people without effort.
Much of the time, people use the word “calling” as meaning something that actually calls to you. Something that calls to you and says, “Here I am; come get me.” And, if you really have a propensity for that, if you were born to do that, then you answer. Well, that’s what most people think; that is, that a calling is something that you hear and you answer.
The opposite is true. The true master is the one who calls, and the world answers. So when you think about it, a calling is something that you make. When you are aligned with your highest self, when you are aligned with your purpose, when you are being the master, when you have that calling, the universe, in a variety of ways – people, places, events, opportunities, experiences – answers.
A master is someone who’s here and expresses who he or she truly is in what he or she does. It’s how you share your gift that determines whether or not you are a master. Do something in an extraordinary way, and you’ll inspire, not only people around you, but, also, everyone they talk to. That’s the difference that we could each make in the world; as true masters, changing one person at a time.
Live on Fire!
D. Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President & CEO
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Tags: calling, finding purpose, intentions, new perspective, success
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February 1st, 2012
Whether we realize it or not, we all influence people all day long. When we interact with one person, that interaction not only affects that person, but everybody around that person. We have a powerful level of impact that we may not even recognize. It creates this incredible ripple effect on every single person we touch in our lives – people that we may not know well or at all.
The question is then, is it a positive influence? When we are conscious of who we are and what we do, and how much influence we have, then we’re really able to affect people in a positive way – as opposed to affecting them in a negative way. The funny thing is, when we do affect them in a negative way, we don’t control the situation. We feel out of control, ourselves. That’s the repercussion of the negative effect. It comes back and then detrimentally has an impact on our lives too.
When we start to say, “What works well that can I do more of, and what am I missing that I know I can better do?” then we start to think about what our potential really is. Nobody reaches their potential – nobody – but, we can begin to tap into and start to live to our potential. Those are the people who will be the most successful and the most fulfilled in all aspects of their lives.
People are looking for more… more out of the products and services they buy, more out of the people they associate with, and, certainly, more out of life, in general. It used to be that it was all about finding the right job, staying there for 35 years, being content with what the company and your life gave you, and kind of making the best of things. Now it’s, “How can I create the best of things?” They want the right job. They want the right lifestyle. They want absolutely everything, and they’re beginning to recognize that they’re actually at the center of it all. They’re the common denominator in terms of creating everything that they want in their lives and work. It’s a fantastic movement to see and watch.
The irony is that we achieve control when we stop trying to control things – when we start to understand that our lives are a creation, on which we have a direct impact and that includes what we do and with whom we do it. And, when we feel like we are at the center, that means we create what happens in our lives and no longer live at the effect of life.
Live on Fire!
D. Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President & CEO
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Tags: choice, expectations, intentions, leadership, new perspective, success
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January 25th, 2012
Every moment asks you to show up in some way. Consider, right now, who are you being? How are you showing up?
In coaching sessions, I regularly hear from clients and students about situations that have them stressed and frustrated. These situations are holding them back, getting in their way, blocking their options, or just not listening to what they want. At the moments when you’re really pushing and trying to get ahead and getting the results you’re seeking, who are you being?
Unfortunately, these people and situations, which are “in the way,” didn’t get the memo about getting out of your way and changing to be how you want them to be. As my very wise, very short, very Italian uncle used to so eloquently say, “Fuggedaboudit!” In fact, in these moments with your clients, the classic, quintessential break-up line is actually true: It’s not them; it’s you!
So I repeat, every moment asks you to show up in some way. You are energized, engaged, and hopefully resolved to make a big impact this year. And so are others! They want to achieve just like you do. What they want, how they want to show up, and how they want to get things done is up to them. You can’t change them. You can change you and what you want, how you show up, how you get things done, and who you want to be, as you’re doing it all is entirely within your control.
Be proactive. Be intentional. Think about how you want to show up – when things are rolling, when things get bumpy, when things get confusing, and when things get exciting!
And then support yourself with reminders. I have a client, right now, who set up his smart phone calendar to ask, “Who are being, right now?” at 4 pm, every day. What routines are you establishing to help you follow through and reinforce how you’ve decided to show up?
Live on Fire! {… and set a few reminders to keep you on track too!}
D. Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President & CEO
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Tags: attitude, choice, expectations, intentions, new perspective, opportunity, self-improvement, success
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January 18th, 2012
In Dan and Chip Heath’s bestselling book, Switch, they discuss how to make change happen (when change is hard) by looking at 3 components – which essentially are mental, emotional, and environmental or situational. To simplify their great presentation:
The mental component is about knowing why you’re doing what you’re doing and being clear and focused on where you’re headed.
The situational facet is about how to use your surroundings to tip things in your favor, making change or results more likely and perhaps a bit easier.
But the piece I wanted to highlight, was the emotional component (or what they call, Motivating the Elephant).
The Heaths give a great example of Don Berwick, a doctor, and, at the time, head of the Institute for Healthcare Improvement (IHI), who was looking to initiate several key quality of care improvements that were shown to have a dramatic impact and save lives (specifically, preventing avoidable deaths) in hospitals.
Most approaches, especially in the medical community, would include stating the case for the recommended improvements and logically show the better outcomes to be derived. But, Berwick knew that the logical case for these “standard procedures” wouldn’t galvanize the community to completely and wholeheartedly adopt the necessary changes. So, instead, he created a campaign to save an additional 100,000 lives and to do so in just 18 months!
In this process, Berwick’s example illustrated how important it is to connect goals to derive a deeper purpose and sense of meaning. It’s one thing to logically understand and commit to a worthwhile goal. It’s another thing, entirely, to emotionally connect that goal to who you are, what you stand for, and what your values and beliefs are. When you connect, in this way, to your goal, you are pulled forward towards your goal by something bigger than yourself.
Berwick tapped right into the very reason medical professionals become medical professionals… and, in doing so, they saved an estimated 122,300 lives in 18 months.
Deeply connect your goals to who you are and what you stand for, and you will be amazed at just how energized, engaged, and resolved you will become!
Live on Fire!
D. Luke Iorio, CPC, PCC, ELI-MP
President & CEO
Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Tags: change, choice, expectations, finding purpose, intentions, perspective, success
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