Kermit the Frog

September 1st, 2010

A Coach and Role Model
By Guest Blogger Shari Ciapka

I’m a Muppet fanatic to the core.  It all began when my mom made me a Miss Piggy costume for Halloween, and I proudly paraded around the Lake Hiawatha Elementary School parking lot in my feather boa, pig ears, and cardboard snout.  I aspired to be just like Miss Piggy as she epitomized the ultimate balance of glamour and feminine power. As I matured, however, I also became akin to Kermit the Frog’s disposition, which is really that of his creator, Jim Henson.

Jim Henson said; “When I was young, my ambition was to be one of the people who made a difference in this world.  My hope is to leave the world a little better for my having been there.”  There’s no doubt that Henson accomplished his goal by masterfully educating and entertaining people of all ages through his unique interaction between puppets and humans.  His brilliant legacy will live on for generations to come.

There’s a deeply introspective scene in “The Muppet Movie”, in which Kermit and friends become stranded in the desert on route to Hollywood, possibly missing their big chance to become movie stars.  In a conversation with himself, Kermit wonders why all of the Muppets have entrusted him with their dream.  After all, he never promised them anything.  In his dialogue, he finally realizes that everyone came along because they believed in the dream too, and the only one to whom he made a promise was himself.  Kermit is a natural leader with a sense of humility and an innate ability to bring out the best in others – sounds a lot like iPEC coaches.

What can we learn from Kermit?  Just because we’re coaches doesn’t mean that we have to “have it all figured out” or “have it all together” all the time.  Why?  Because the answers lie within our clients, of course.  The important thing is that we are highly aware of our own thoughts, feelings, and actions, which allow us to self-coach, reach out to fellow coaches for assistance, and utilize our inner coach to guide others.  All we need to bring to the table is an intuitive ear, a unique servicing system, and a promise to ourselves that we’ll be the best coaches we can be.  Guided by Kermit, the Muppets ultimately make it to Hollywood, and they get their big movie deal.  What legacy will you leave through coaching?

“Life’s like a movie.  Write your own ending.  Keep believing, keep pretending.  We’ve done just what we set out to do, thanks to the lovers, the dreamers, and you.”  ~ Kermit the Frog and “The Muppet Movie” cast.

About Shari Ciapka:
Shari’s mission through Sense Savvy Living (SSL) is to help people reveal the beauty in their everyday lives through the health and wellness of their five senses.  She’s passionate that our senses are the precious intake system for how we experience the world, and they should not be taken for granted.  Through SSL, Shari provides real-life ideas that will inspire, empower, and motivate you to touch, taste, smell, see, and hear your way to a sensational life.  You can read more of Shari’s blog posts at her website, http://www.sensesavvyliving.com/, and also on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Sense-Savvy-Living/176276913338

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REDEFINING EDUCATIONAL SUCCESS

August 31st, 2010

The educational system is at a turning point.
Though it has taken a beating in the past few years – shrinking budgets, increased regulation and complexity, greater job demands, and a lower influx of new teachers (i.e. new energy) — it is actually the perfect time to redefine the meaning of educational success, and as a community band together in its pursuit.

Children are not just their grades and test scores, their parents and the support they get, their individual aptitudes or emotional development, the classrooms they’re in or the teachers they have… it’s actually all of those things, and more.

Educational success must be measured by how well we are developing 21st century students who are global thinkers with strong communication, relationship, and team-working skills; and how well we are readying our young people to be the leaders of the future, able to flourish and thrive.

Our role as a community of engaged educators is to produce innovators, entrepreneurs, and contributors to society.  By teaching our young people about decision making, about values, about emotions, and about the way they think, we are watering the seeds of greatness in each child.

Success can further be defined as our ability to provide excellent leadership to each student, utilizing coaching technology that brings out the full potential of each student. By providing robust tools that positively impact the whole child, across his or her life, and throughout his or her development, the Educational Leadership Coach Training program (www.CoachTrainingforEducators.com) allows professional educators to see more angles, understand the interconnectedness of diverse elements, and focus their efforts in a way that brings about positive, substantial, and sustainable change.

In the world in which we live today, our success as educators will depend on our ability to create a culture that is focused on “what’s right,” one in which parents and community, standing alongside our teachers, principals, and superintendents, see the greatness in every child, and are committed to that child’s intellectual,  physical, and emotional well-being.

What will that new culture look like? Inside the classroom we’ll adopt new approaches, more deeply embedding multiple learning modalities, customizing lesson plans to the individual student, and demonstrating leadership and improving interpersonal skills through coaching competencies like intuitive listening and acknowledgement and validation.

Outside the classroom, we will lead through social interactions, getting our students involved in more than just academics, and encouraging them to become involved in their communities and to pursue their passions.

Some of these approaches have been in the works and are in use today; other approaches are still in the making to figure out what’s going to best educate students based on today’s requirements.

In order to meet those requirements, we need to become even more aware of all the factors that are impacting our children – to recognize that when students don’t feel physically and emotionally safe, true learning doesn’t happen. When students are hungry, they must be fed.  When they are afraid and lack confidence, they must be reassured. Their basic needs have to be met so that their minds are free to learn.

We need to set up an environment that is risk free, and to nurture and support students every day, no matter how they show up to class in the moment. We need to empower students to come up with their own answers and to view situations from a holistic perspective. We need to learn to trust that they can lead themselves, and that they can learn how to make effective decisions that factor in many perspectives.

So who do educational leaders and other professional educators need to become to deliver on this new vision?
We need to become great leaders and great coaches.  As more and more effective educators develop their true ability to lead and use the power of coaching, more and more children will mirror those forms of positive communication that seek to bring forth the inner brilliance and worth of each person.

Written by Alan Cohen

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It’s your Choice

August 30th, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

Victim or Leader? You Choose!

“You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests you think she’s pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her.”

I love this joke and included it as one of our weekly messages for a reason other than humor. Too many people take life too seriously and things too personally. Sometimes, due to our worrying about upsetting another person, we hold back from connecting with them.

Instead of that, being open and honest will lead to a greater connection. Just keep one thing in mind: if your intentions are pure, then a simple apology will clean up anything that may have been received as inappropriate.

This week, instead of worrying about what people think, with love, let them know a little about what you think.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

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Challenge, instead of Holding Back

August 23rd, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

“When trouble arises and things look bad, there is always one individual who perceives a solution and is willing to take command. But sometimes that individual is crazy!”

Just a lighthearted quote to remind us all that one of two things occurs when someone takes the lead in a crisis. Either the leader is on target and the challenge is on its way to being ameliorated, or the leader is off track and leads others into further chaos.

How can you know which is the case? Instead of blindly responding to someone, even if they are in charge, ask them how they came to the conclusion they did. Oftentimes, you will hear something that doesn’t make sense, and your “two cents” may just help.

This week, if you’re facing a challenging situation and someone offers a solution, ask for clarification before responding.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

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Is Your Life a Gain or a Drain?

August 16th, 2010

Start your week with some inspiration from iPEC!

As most of you know, we are all energy. Energy is either anabolic (this builds you up) or catabolic (this breaks you down). It’s important to note that everything in our lives, including tasks, goals, relationships, jobs, etc., are either anabolic or catabolic as well.

Consider all the things in your life that help you, or hinder you, from being the best you can be with the most energy. To get the most energy out of life, you’ll need to decide what energy (people, places, and things) you want to keep, and what you want to let go.

This week, make gain/drain inventory for the people, places, and things in your life and think about making some adjustments.

—Bruce D Schneider, MCC,
Founder, Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)

www.ipeccoaching.com

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